I
got to know Josh in the late 60s when I was dating my first husband, Michael
Bliss. Josh, Michael, Richard Olivo, and John Kyrk were sharing a house on
Mount Auburn Street in Cambridge. When
Michael and I got married in July of 1969, Josh was best man at our wedding,
and Richard and John were two of the ushers. (Josh is in this photo on the far left.) At the
wedding, shortly before I was about to start down the aisle, Josh pulled me
aside, and said he had something he needed to tell me. From the anguished look
on his face and the way he gripped my hand---well, you can imagine what I
assumed! It turned out that the night before, the ushers had gone out on the
town, and somehow the wedding rings, which had been in Josh's keeping, had
gotten lost. Josh had run out to the 5&10 in town (Mt. Kisco, NY) that
morning and bought some cheap replacements, and he didn't want me to be upset
at the altar when the wrong rings turned up. He couldn't stop apologizing.
Sometime during the wedding reception Josh disappeared. When he came up to me
later, hot and sweating in his tails, he presented me with a small box. He had
raced back to town in his little green MG, found an open antique store, and
bought me a tasteful, gold wedding band. It was a perfect fit. Months later, the father of one of the ushers
was cleaning out his car before selling it--the car his son had borrowed for
the wedding—and discovered the original wedding rings on the floor. Josh was
finally able to laugh when he told the story. I had three wedding rings, one
dearly-beloved friend.
--Corinne
Demas
One of the oldest traditions relating to the wedding is the exchange of the wedding rings. Not only is this an age old tradition but also this is a custom followed almost throughout the world.
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